Why my clients appreciate me
There were 6 months in which I felt the growth pains, the pains of recognizing and identifying the things I did wrong in the last years.
On a personal level, I had a lot of frustrations and inner conflicts. And in terms of business, I had toxic clients, and bad payers, and I was toxic myself and allowed them do what they wanted, to break the few rules I had, and I worked with anyone who came along thinking: "I’ll try to make it work somehow".
After going through the process of coaching, I now can communicate easier what I feel and how I feel, without attacking the other person regardless of whether it's a personal or professional conflict.
✔️ As a result of this I improved my relationship and communication in my family - both within the house and the extended family.
✔️ And in business, I currently only have clients whom I respect and who respect me.
✔️ I have very well predetermined boundaries that I now share with clients and I noticed that they respect them.
✔️ This way I improved the circle of people I work with and I no longer have panic attacks when a client calls me or I see a message/email.
✔️ I am an optimistic person and I believed that I can improve. And now I can proudly say that I have developed my assertiveness and I would even dare to say that it is now integrated in my way of being.
✔️ Hand in hand with assertiveness, came empathy. Because I realised that I can't only be firm with people all the time, not without hurting them.
✔️ Now I communicate more easily with my wife and daughter, and when they have a difficult moment, I notice it and validate their emotions. And therefore I hear more and more often around me that: "Thank you/I appreciate that you understand me".
✔️ I changed and improved the circle of people I hang out with.
✔️ And I don't smoke anymore.
What I can say about Tünde is that she is warm, sincere and assertive. She is excellent when she interacts with people and she does it in a very natural and personalized way with each individual. She is also a good person at heart, smart, sociable and has managed to create around her a group of people with values and principles.
Tünde is a real expert, able to understand you and offer you the necessary help and guidance.
And although coaching with her was one of the most demanding things I've done, it was also the most rewarding.
Besides her talent and knowledge she is first of all respectful because she has an unusual understanding of people and what makes a personality and therefore also what it takes to be an achieving, insightful and trustworthy leader. It makes her approach to investment in people direct, substantial and kind at the same time, and consequently much valuable and helpful.
